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Rami Beracha’s blog on the venture capital industry. Rami is the co-founder and CEO at Sosa.

Communication issues are a major problem. It’s a minefield that we’ve have created. It starts just a second after coming into contact with a person, and ends with an incredible explosion…

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Our greatest mistake is that we assume total alignment in each other’s expectations, without ever trying to understand the expectations of our partner. There is one thing, however, that we are completely in accord with our partner in and he doesn’t hesitate to miss an opportunity to expand the gap between expectations. …. There isn’t anyone on the planet to warn us of the imminent clash.

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There are many causes for communication issues, and the majority of them are related to our personality. People who are squared are more likely than those with liberal personalities to be misinformed, while individuals who are aggressive may have difficulty in coordinating expectations with passive. This is evident that squared personalities can be distinguished from liberals, and aggressive individuals can be distinguished from passive.

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Imagine if they were very different? Think about if there is a gap in personality. It is not something that any person has ever investigated or warned about, nor discovered. !

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Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduced you to a new type of personality that is shared by all of us: the FULL CIRCLE and the HALF CIRCLE types! !

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Note : This is a guide to behavior. After reading the following analysis attempt to determine the personality that best describes you. Additionally, you should identify your partner in life. If you discover that you are of two different types, as Bono declares “we’re one , but we’re not the same”, then you should be happy. You might have discovered the cause of many of the differences in your life! If however, you’re both of the same kind I’m sorry to say that I’m unable to tell you the reasons why your relationships look awful.

Here we go…

Humans can be classified into two distinct groups. Certain of us are split into two groups that are self-contained while others feel completely at home. Sure, he would like to be a part of a group, and sure, he’s always looking for people to share his life with. Absolutely! It’s all true! … But, he can’t live without his dream companion until he finds one. He wants to spend his entire life with his love and is hoping to make it to the end of his circle.

The “half a circle” individuals on the opposite side need to find a companion. They won’t let go of the miserable creature when they discover it. They’ll try to physically join their victim into a happy circle. The Halves will not compromise on their desire to staring at each one from a distance that is zero for the rest of their lives. Their desire to merge with their other half and make a complete unit can only be fulfilled by something less intimate.

One interesting distinction between these types is the decision to let go of a partner. If a partner is no longer chemistry-wise with the whole circle will be dismissed easily by the entire circle. The “half-a-circle” type will however redefine what it means to have an enmity with their partner. They will say that they are ‘holding on to this B..ST..RD’ until they can replace him with an version.

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Imagine the incredible dance that occurs when a “half” and “full” circle try to make each other their counterparts. They’re not aware of their different perspectives. The Half takes two leaps in the air, way beyond the comfort space of the Full, who thinks the abrupt invasion of his personal space a little too scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He forced the Half out of his comfort zone . Even though the Half assumes that the Full was innocent and made a error, and graciously compensated by taking another step forward, the Half gets more concerned and begins to get angry. They know the reason, but since they don’t have the correct terminology they can’t adequately explain their rage and go towards the wrong direction. They could have been saved had they known that the one they are searching for is Half while the other is fully.

There isn’t one conclusion to this essay but there are a few action items:

1. Discover who you are.

2. Learn about your partner

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3. Be aware of the differences.

3. Respect the different!

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Let’s just say that there is only one conclusion Let’s live and let go.