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Rami Beracha blogs about the venture capital world. Rami Beracha co-founded Sosa.
Communication issues are a major issue. It is a minefield caused by us. It is triggered a second after making contact with someone, and ends with an amazing explosion…
רמי ברכה
The biggest error we make is to assume that we are completely aligned in our expectations for each other without trying to figure out what our partner’s expectations are of us. One thing we do agree on is that our partner is not afraid to widen this gap ….. We don’t even need anyone to alert us of the upcoming conflict.
רמי ברכה
There are a variety of possible causes of miscommunication. The majority of them are caused by personality differences. People with square personalities are more likely to avoid communicating with those who are liberal. Affirmative personalities may struggle to align their expectations and the expectations of passive people. It is simple to identify – everyone knows that they are squared from liberal and passive from aggressive.
However, what if they are very different and they don’t realize that. Imagine if there’s a gap in personality. It’s not something anyone has investigated or warned about, nor discovered. !
Let me introduce you, gentlemen and ladies the new type of personality that we all share with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus those from the half circle! !
Note : This is a behavioral guide. After reading the analysis below attempt to determine the personality that best describes you. Additionally, you should identify your partner in real life. If you find that you’re of two different types – as the Bono song says “we are one however we’re different” You should be extremely happy as you might have discovered the cause of many of your differences! If, on the other hand you’re of the same kind and you’re not sure why, I’m sorry to say that I can’t help you understand the reason why your relationships appear to be the same thing…
So, here we take a look…
Rami Beracha
There are two types of human beings: humans. We can be divided into two categories: some are self-contained, while others feel completely at home. He needs a partner. Absolutely! Absolutely! … However, he’ll never be able to survive without the right companion. He would like to share his life with his partner, and he is hopeful to complete his circle.
The “half-a circle” kind is the opposite side of humanity. (No, it’s not full-circle that was damaged during the birth). When they discover the miserable animal and they are unable to let go! They’ll try to physically integrate their victim in a happy circle. The Halves will not compromise on their desire to staring at each at each other from a distance of zero for the rest. They won’t settle for anything less intimate to satisfy their desire to join with each other and make a complete.
An interesting observation between the two types relates to the decision to let go of an individual partner. The entire circle will undoubtedly be able to let go of a person who has lost their connection quickly. The half-circle type will however redefine the meaning of having mutual chemistry with their partners. They’ll claim that they’re holding on to this B..ST..RD’ until they can replace him with a more effective upgrade.
Imagine a dance where two half-circles and a complete circle are trying to please their partner. The Half can take two steps forward past the comfortable zone. The unexpected intrusion into his private space can be somewhat daunting. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He pushed the Half out of his comfortable zone . Even though the Half believes that the Full made an innocent error, and kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half gets more worried and starts to feel angry. The Full and the Half understand why, but aren’t using the correct terms. They can’t properly explain their frustration, and so they search for the wrong things. If they only knew that one of them is half and the other is Full it could have saved them …
There isn’t any single solution, there are a few steps you can adopt.
1. Find out who you are.
2. Find out who your real partner is
3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect the different!
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